Tuesday, October 7

It's been a while since I sat down to blog so here goes. It's naptime so I'm defaulting to a list, it's easy and fast.

1. Gwyn slept from 8pm to 6am last night without waking up in her crib!! Yay! We're getting somewhere people! And her naps are getting longer. I haven't nursed her in 3 nights. Here's to getting my brain back!

2. I love you Wal-Mart. I hate you Wal-Mart. Because I was feeling spunky today because of the sleep we went to Wal-Mart to get some groceries. We had decided to make Wilder a cowboy for Halloween. Space cowboy actually, complete with a rocket backpack. In my mind I was thinking, how am I going to find cowboy boots, western shirt, vest, etc without having to sew or spend a fortune. As we were looking at the Halloween stuff I found a stuffed cowboy costume that has the horse that wraps around so it looks like you're riding it...not a bad idea, it's easy, I can buy it and be done with Wilder's costume. Next to the cowboy costume was an Elmo costume. (you know where it goes from here). To make a long story short the Elmo costume made it into our cart, onto Wilder, into our car and is currently in Wilder's bed taking a nap with him. Oh well, maybe space cowboy will work out next year. Maybe Gwyn will be his horse. Gwyn's costume however, is in the works. I have several colors of tulle, fairy shoes, and a headband that I will be working on myself! Can't wait.

3. Remember how I said I was going to give a review about Bringing Up Boys by James Dobson. Well, here's a little life application. The book is good, emphasizes the importance of family relationships and describes boys, their personalities, the challenges they face in today's world, etc. One of the major issues today is the demasculation of boys. (I don't want to try to explain this in detail here, if you're interested, let's talk about it :) Anyway, the other night I was home by myself putting both Wilder and Gwyn to bed (not an easy task). As we were finishing the baths I'm trying to get one dressed and one out of the tub and Wilder asks to put on my robe "mommy robe, mommy robe." It's a little white robe that I've let him put on and wear until bedtime a few times. It wasn't in the bathroom...but my pink, silk, nightgown was. He wants to put it on, I think if Blake were here he'd kill me. Gwyn is getting impatient, I'm tired, so pink nightgown goes on. When I finally put him to bed he does not want to take it off to put on his PJ's so I let him sleep in it. The next morning I left for work before he was up. Blake's parents are there to take him for the day...I get an email from Blake at work asking why his father calls him to ask why his son woke up in a pink dress. You can imagine the confusion and embarrassement Blake is feeling. Especially if you know his dad. It's funny becaue Blake is reading the book right now too and we've talked about this issue of demasculation and here I go dressing him in pink satin. Not that I think that dress up here or there will ruin a boy forever but kinda funny.

4. Bible study at my house! I've been wanting to do something organized like this for a long time and it's finally in the works. I miss the times in my life that I met with friends to study, talk, and pray. We (so far my friend from church, my friend Jen, and my cousin Amy) will be meeting once a week on Wednesday for a couple of hours with our kiddos. We are going to do Beth Moore's Believing God. (I can't find the ital button so sorry for the lack of italics Holly) From what I hear, it's great. I will need grace to find the time and complete the study each week but am determined to try because I personally feel I am suffering the consequences of a weak spiritual life right now. I want to invite any of you, my family and friends to come if you want to. We're planning on daytime but if there are enough that are interested that would need an evening than maybe we can figure something out. Right now we're starting the week on the 20th or 27th. Let me know!

Ok, I'm going to work a little on Gwyn's costume before they wake up!

8 comments:

Tasha said...

I'm laughing. I'm crying. You are too funny. I only wish we had a picture of Wilder's pink adventure. Sorry, Blake. Miles enjoys carrying my purses around the house. Oh, and I saw a little boy (about 6), with pink toenails the other day. Don't feel so bad. Haha.

We'll have to discuss the demasculation (was that the word? This is the perfect example of why I need your post to be on the same page as the comment section!! Arg.). Anywho, yes, I would love to hear more about this...I'll have to pick your brain.

Speaking of brains, I'm glad you're on the road to getting yours back. I'm just feeling, recently, as though I might be getting mine back. Knock on wood. Hurry. This may be the first time, during our friendship, that we both have semi-working brains. Who knows, maybe we won't even like each other when we're thinking clearly...LOL. Of course I'm kidding, I can hardly remember what life was life before you came along. Ahhh, yes, I'm that sweet. ;)

I love. love. love. that Wilder is going to be Elmo. Representing all that is commercial and consumer...and in the exact same boat as us with Miles and his Sesame Street obsession! Just kidding, but that was a truly funny story, and I'm so glad you called to share. Just like a two year old to completely shatter his parent's idea of what makes a good Halloween costume. He'll be a darn cute Elmo, though, I'm sure of it.

By the way, Miles will either be the Dracula or Bert, depending on how creative I'm feeling in the coming days. We'll have to get them together. He will be so excited to meet Elmo, IN PERSON...EEEK!

Glad you're enjoying your day, and SO glad (read jealous), that you got a full night's sleep! :)

Love ya.
T.

Jenny said...

I am finally able to make a comment, yeah! Thanks for the update I was wondering what was going on in your world. I've read Bringing Up Boys and I really enjoyed it and it opened my eyes to how boys see this world we live in. Having three little boys myself I need that perspective;)

You will really enjoy Beth Moore's study, I am jealous I do not live closer because I would love to join the group. She has such a gift of making God's word speak to me.

Hope the rest of your week is a good one!

Shelly Collins said...

Yay, Jenny's back!

Dayna said...

I don't know which is funnier - the Elmo incident or the pink satin nightgown!

hwall said...

Oh, Shelly. We really need to catch up. I miss you.

Tasha and I were talking about getting together Sunday at my apartment and then for a walk to Cherry Street. Think you'd have time to join? Maybe we can all discuss a good time.

Hey, how about Lunch Friday?

Tasha said...

Thanks for the comment. Yea, a little sleep deprivation, plus 3 hours of free time while Miles was napping, equaled a lot of self exposure ;)

But, I got some great advice, and some encouraging words, so I'm glad for it. A little vulnerability can sometimes be transformational. Who knows what might come of my ramblings...haha.

Can't wait to see you tomorrow! Lunch Fridays, here I come!
T.

jessica said...

My email is jessica.hendricks@cox.net

See you when we get back.

Walt & Saundra said...

I love you Shel! How did you get Gwyn to sleep so well? We've got to get your sleep solution going on at our house!

And I hear Dr. D. is publishing a "Bringing up Girls" book too. I think it was due to come out this month?

Oh, and the author was Francine Rivers.